Articles that have helped in my time of grief:

An excellent article on grieving:

https://johnpavlovitz.com/2017/01/05/the-grieving-need-you-most-after-the-funeral/

Kate Bowler's book Everything Happens for a Reason and Other Lies I Have Believed

An article by Bowler:

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/01/26/opinion/sunday/cancer-what-to-say.html